Friday, March 31, 2006

My Favourite Things

***The following are NOT in any order of Preference***

1.Davidoff CoolWater for Men (what can i say I like the classic stuff)

2.Getting a concerned message from "someone" first thing in the morning just because i was venting over sms

3.Wearing raggedy old denims (they have to be faded to point of extinction)

4.J-Inc (that, to all unknowing ppl is my group of friends,and stands for Jobless - Incorporated and I am the Chief lol)

5.Waking up to the smell of frying eggs

6.Walking/Sitting in the Rain/Storm

7.Sitting around in a cafe for hours (not any cafe , just the few that I really like )

8.My Job (hey i get to play cricket in the bay )

9.Holding "someone" really close while dancing at club/party (hey sue me for liking the way a girl feels )

10.A good looking,good smelling,well dressed,confident girl/woman (well i would atleast look/sniff more than once lol)

11.Being recognized at resturants/pubs/clubs that i frequent by the waiter/bartender (ever tried getting a drink in a club on saturday night??)

12.Being sent a "missing you" text message("someone" strikes again)

13.Big,friendly dogs

14.Being really good at my job (no.1 or bust baby)

15.Working out (not the obssesive kind,but nothing like it to jumpstart the day)

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

I was asked a rather interesting question today."who was your first love?"I was stumped.The normal answer to the question would be Sharon,in the 5th grade.But then did i know what love was in the 5th grade?I possibly couldnt because i still think that i dont know what love is.This would mean one of 2 things :
a) I do not know what love is
or
b)I knew what it was but dont anymore.

I have basically gone through life dating and thats about it.Some a little longer than the others but the end result is the same.So that means I am 23 and I have never been in a relationship.However this is something that I do know for sure,I invariably end up falling for the wrong girl and the kind that end up falling for me are all wrong for me.

The kind i fall for are usually smart,good looking and multi faceted.However since i am a pretty good listener I end up in the "Friend" category and trust me there is nothing as irritating as that.Especially when you want to be anything but that.Oh and take my word for this....friend you might be and have stuck around for all the bad stuff but the moment a boyfriend comes to the picture you might as well as be non-existent.You are expendable so be ready to bite the bullet.

The kind that fall for me are smart,good looking and multifaceted :). However,the reason why I think they are wrong for me is because they sort of want attention 24/7 and am a busy guy .Plus I have some independence issues.But the thing is that for some reason within 3 dates I know that they are wrong for me.Very wrong.But since I am a bit of a chicken I find excuses to avoid them instead of just telling it like it is.

So now I am just as confused as I was when I started writing.Which my friends isnt all that uncommon is it? :)